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18 key learnings from Carla Harris’s “pearls”, lessons from her decades at Morgan Stanley on succeeding at work: perception, authenticity, relationships, sponsors, risk and leadership. Each takes about 40 seconds to read. Swipe, use the arrows, or your keyboard.

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18 key learnings from a Wall Street veteran on perception, relationships, sponsors and owning your career.

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Learning 1 · Mindset

Expect to Win

The idea

Harris's starting point is mindset: go into every situation expecting to succeed, and prepare as if you will.

In practice

A candidate who prepares as if they'll get the role carries more confidence into the interview.

Takeaway

Expect success, and prepare for it.

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Learning 2 · Mindset

Hard Work Isn't Enough

The idea

After Harvard Business School, Harris assumed good work would be rewarded automatically. She learned that the workplace isn't a pure meritocracy.

In practice

Excellent work that nobody important knows about rarely leads to promotion.

Takeaway

Do great work, and make sure the right people know about it.

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Learning 3 · Perception

Perception Is the Co-pilot to Reality

The idea

How others perceive you shapes the opportunities you get, sometimes as much as your actual ability.

In practice

Two equally skilled colleagues; the one seen as “leadership material” gets the stretch role.

Takeaway

Manage how you're perceived, not just how you perform.

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Learning 4 · Perception

Choose Your Three Adjectives

The idea

Decide three words you want colleagues to use about you. They must be true to you and valued by your organisation. Then act and speak in line with them.

In practice

Harris was told she wasn't tough enough; she deliberately showed toughness and within months was seen as one of the firm's toughest people.

Try this

Pick three words, and live them consistently.

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Learning 5 · Perception

Ask What Success Looks Like

The idea

In a new role, ask your boss how success will be measured. If they don't know, propose your own definition.

In practice

Agreeing clear goals in the first month avoids surprises at review time.

Takeaway

Clarify what success means before you start.

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Learning 6 · Authenticity

Be Authentic

The idea

Pretending to be someone else drains energy and blocks trust. Being yourself makes relationships easier.

In practice

Harris, also a gospel singer, found clients warmed to her once she shared that side of her life.

Takeaway

Bring your real self to work.

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Learning 7 · Authenticity

Authenticity Builds Trust

The idea

People trust those who are genuine. Trust is the foundation of business relationships.

In practice

Clients return to advisers who are honest about what they don't know.

Takeaway

Let people see who you really are.

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Learning 8 · Communication

Communicate with Intent

The idea

How you communicate, including tone, clarity and listening, shapes how your ideas and you are received.

In practice

A clear, confident update to senior leaders builds credibility.

Takeaway

Communicate clearly and deliberately.

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Learning 9 · Currency

Performance Currency

The idea

Delivering excellent results earns performance currency. It gets you noticed early in a role, but its value fades once excellence becomes expected.

In practice

Early in a job, strong results quickly build your reputation.

Try this

Build a strong record early.

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Learning 10 · Currency

Relationship Currency

The idea

Relationships build relationship currency: people who know you, trust you and will speak for you. It keeps its value as you rise.

In practice

Senior promotions often depend on who vouches for you in the room.

Try this

Invest in relationships across the organisation.

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Learning 11 · Relationships

Advisers, Mentors and Sponsors

The idea

Harris distinguishes three roles: advisers answer specific questions; mentors know your whole story and give tailored advice; sponsors use their influence to argue for you when decisions are made.

In practice

A sponsor speaks for you in the promotion meeting you're not invited to.

Takeaway

Know which of these you have, and which you need.

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Learning 12 · Relationships

Sponsors Matter Most

The idea

Without a sponsor, your career can stall, because key decisions are made behind closed doors. Earn sponsors through strong performance and relationships.

In practice

A capable professional is overlooked because nobody senior champions them.

Try this

Find someone who will advocate for you.

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Learning 13 · Relationships

Ask for Help

The idea

Don't hesitate to ask your network for help. If one person can't help, move on to the next.

In practice

Asking several contacts for introductions to a new industry.

Try this

Use your network, and keep asking.

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Learning 14 · Risk

Fear Has No Place

The idea

Fear causes people to hold back, stay silent and miss opportunities. Harris urges replacing fear with preparation and action.

In practice

Speaking up in a meeting despite nerves gets your ideas heard.

Takeaway

Don't let fear make your decisions.

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Learning 15 · Risk

Take Calculated Risks

The idea

Staying put isn't safe. Before declining an opportunity, ask whether it offers new skills, new networks or new options. If yes, consider taking it.

In practice

Moving to a new team that broadens your experience.

Takeaway

Weigh what you'd gain, not just what you'd risk.

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Learning 16 · Risk

Reinvent Yourself

The idea

Harris suggests rethinking your career every few years, building new skills and taking on new challenges.

In practice

A finance professional moving into a systems role to stay relevant.

Try this

Plan your career in chapters, and reinvent as needed.

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Learning 17 · Ownership

Own Your Career

The idea

You alone are responsible for your career. Ask for promotions, pay and opportunities rather than waiting to be noticed.

In practice

Asking clearly for a promotion, with evidence of results.

Takeaway

Speak up for what you want.

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Learning 18 · Leadership

Lead by Example

The idea

Leadership means setting a vision, building trust and developing others, whatever your title.

In practice

A senior professional mentoring juniors builds a reputation as a leader.

Takeaway

Lead in ways that help others succeed.

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All 18 learnings complete

That’s all 18 learnings.

Expect to win, and plan for it. Who would speak up for you if your name came up in a promotion meeting tomorrow?

Abhay Kumar JaiswalFCA · PMP® · Workday Financeabhayjaiswal.com
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